As my fellow blogger blogged many times, is at a kind of TS most likely the brain is one of the great causes and I come across evidence suggesting this.
Since I am now moving more in women, it struck me again that I understand them better and they understand me too many times better than it used to be among the men / boys of the case.
Like me since then, if I bring to the language, is also explained again and again, this is not surprising, is the communication between men and women quite differently, and that with my most likely female brain also containing communication difficulties must suffer, when I talk to men - which was played over and led me so constantly before our eyes.
Anyway, there was once again a chat discussion on this subject, led me to dedicate this issue to contribute.
In the course of this discussion I have been in many ways, the eyes open, as there were several situations in my past, respectively, why they eventually became so developed.
example, when I was in the cinema, I could end up usually just say whether I liked the movie or not, technical versions or director's stuff I was interested in rather less, what was with my two best friends differently .. . more or less ... one more, another less ;-)
I was then but are often annoyed that I always explain everything exactly, is why or why not, I liked this or that - in the end it amounted to an ER told me that commented on various things and then either and I said, " Yes, right. " or "no, I did not do that". With a no of course, led back to the fact that I explain myself. What I almost never was ...
Or name ... that's a big thing with me ... uh ... huge problem. I can hardly remember my name, but I usually find it in a roundabout way but out yet who I mean, if the other person knows the person well. This is called memory so far Sorry, not got better * g *
Here are two quotes from the discussion, with the permission of cheap copyists:
Jessica Stephanie Humboldt: angry
Yes they are about us and we do not even at all, with such technical terms we throw around.
songwriter this I could not care whether the brake shoes or collecting thing or snap hook means
Vanita Cabral:
But this networked descriptions of things, the path then that you can not understand men with their more vertical brain and therefore they resent us. We
We need not wonder that we have qualities that men generally be denied completely.
And what is the best.
WE CAN FINALLY TAKE ADVANTAGE!
.....
I am a total bitch (I said that?) And yet I've grown since the switch more "masculine".
As for God's sake, I was there well before? ^ ^
Anyway, I do not trust me now, to represent my opinion. I used to be just like EVERYTHING. A chance to defend myself, I had not before.
particular, the last quotation makes it apply to me, earlier I suppressed everything that was kind of treacherous and hold me back much as possible. Notice was not the best camouflage, so I also added more small.
Dating as an example. Before, I did not dare to be active, I was passive throughout and the occasional active experiments, which were nothing more than to say the least natural disasters. Today, however, I dare to be active, I go sometimes on someone and talk to him / her, what then is either to nem Flirt or just remain a nice conversation. Either way, it was (mostly) pleasant, the comparison to know something.
Sure, now, where has all together slowly and I know who and what I am and I will also slowly realize where I want to go in life when I can be at last I own, ultimately for all Interpersonal is important if it is to work well.
mE Finally, a good summary of what is likely THE explanation at all, for one or the other communication problem between husband and wife.
women solved by means of non-verbal and very little verbal communication pictures of other women who are already in whose head is stored. Whether through experience or character of the brain. Therefore, women can talk about many subjects simultaneously, and require very little verbal communication operate to exchange much information per unit time.
Furthermore, women can communicate and understand emotions without talking. Women just know. In a man to get such pictures is hardly possible to her brain stores mainly facts and does much more extensive than the brain of a woman.
women save more connections, smells, feelings, sensations, and then use this to make clear to men is almost always an impossibility.
As a small Thank you for reading through old when the present contribution, here's a little gift ;-)
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